So, if some of have read my past forums you may know a bit of the back story. But my SD6 plays softball in our hometown and BM lives an hour away because soon she will be moving to our town. Well SD has had 3 games this summer and BM has only been to the most recent game, the third one. She hasn't been there due to her child being sick, which I understand. But what I don't get is how her husband couldn't "watch" him for a few hours so she can watch her daughter play softball. We also do week on week off for the summer and on BM's weeks I keep my SD while she is at work to save her money. Well she decided the DH and I keep SD on her night so she could sleep in...again I understand, but she hasn't seen her daughter in over a week so I don't get it. Also, she jumps down my throat for being there for SD too much or doing too much with her because she is jealous and guilty for being there for her daughter, but she won't admit she just wants to blame me and accuse me for trying to take her place. I don't know what to do. I will never say no to keeping SD, I view her as my own, but I feel I am viewed as a nanny, not SM or a parent. And DH pays child support as well, even though we have her most of the time. I don't know how to handle this situation because to me it seems unfair. The only positive thing out of this is have SD all the time!