Oh my gosh! I just saw my worst fear come true for another poor soul!
My hubby came home last night so upset. When I asked him what was wrong this is what he told me. He has a man who works in the same farm system he does. This man got a call at work telling him his 3 year old son was dead. It seems the man's ex wife lived with a new bf and the bf backed over the boy with his car. Now you feel so sorry for all 3 adults don't you? Not so fast. When the real truth comes out its discovered that what really happened is that the bf did something (we are not sure just what) that killed the boy. To top that off the BM and the bf decided to cover that up by deliberately running the car over the boy. Now that's a mom for you isn't it? Let's protect the bf at all costs. Both BM and her bf are in prison right now so we will see what happens there.
I have fears of something happening to my daughters while they are with their father. He abused me for almost the entire time we were married. Now that we are divorced I'm not there to protect the girls if he goes on another anger spurt. On the good side he hasn't hurt them....yet.
Please say a prayer for this family.
That is awful...That poor
That is awful...That poor man.
My abuse is documented as
My abuse is documented as well. The judge stated that even though Ding Dong abused me there was no documentation that he had ever hurt the girls. So, no supervision. About 3 years after we were divorced he pulled some fast tricks that ended up hurting the girls emotionally and mentally. Were we able to get supervised visitation for 6 months. They were safe for 6 months then right back to his tricks. He's just more careful now.
How absolutely horrifying. I
:jawdrop:
How absolutely horrifying.
I remember one time when I was driving on the interstate and clipped a coyote that was crossing the road. I stopped (thought it was someone's pet at first) and the animal was injured and suffering but not dead. I felt so helpless. I had no gun or knife. I had no way of putting it out of its misery. My friend said that I should just run the car over him again to kill him. As much as I hated the animal being in pain, I couldn't bring myself to run him over and kill him.
What the hell "mother" lets some a$$hole cover up killing her baby by allowing him to run the car over him.
My mind just replays the
My mind just replays the whole scene over and over again. I just can not imagine how this happened. The mind set of both of them has got to be twisted. I have wondered if drug use played a part in this but I really don't know.
That just brought tears to my
That just brought tears to my eyes. I don't really worry about my girls with their dad, but BM chooses such LOSERS and always allows them around SS. Makes me sick to think about.
My aunt's SS lost his little
My aunt's SS lost his little baby back in 1998 because the mom's bf killed him. The mom's bf comes up for parole this year and everyone that my aunt knows is writing letters to the parole board to keep him in jail. The mom only got probation and parenting classes.