I'm so glad that I found this website for people to come and vent! I have been with this woman for almost a year now she is 29 and I'm 28, not married just dating she has two daughters one is 10 and the other is 4 but I do not have any kids. Everything is great when it is just me and her but when her kids are around it feels like I'm on edge and it's hard for me to enjoy them any at all since they both are way to spoiled the 4 year old is treated as a princess and thinks she is the most beautiful girl on the planet (she definitely is not) and if someone won't tell her she is beautiful she will start crying or if she does her little annoying singing and no one cheers for her or tells her it sounds so pretty she will also start crying, for example she done that 4 times in less than 30 minutes the other day I was almost sick to my stomach! A couple months ago she was upstairs watching tv and all of a sudden she let out a blood curdling scream like she was being killed and it scared us to death so we ran upstairs and she was squalling and crying something awful and when asked what happened she had accidentially changed the channel and turned Dora off! It was ridiculous. I was down in the floor playing with them one day and the 4 year old climbed on my back so I was crawling around with her hanging on to my neck and she decides she would spit on the top of my head... I was so pissed and her mom hardly said a word to her I would of liked to bust her ass for that but of course I wouldn't do that to someone else's kid even though I wanted to. She cannot go to sleep unless she lays on somebody's arm and will cry like a baby if no one will lay down with her, me and her mother can barely sit on the couch and she tries to get between us. I do not treat her like a princess like everybody else does but I'm not mean either I don't applaud her singing or her constant asking if she is beautiful or if she has the prettiest skin than any other little girl. She is way to spoiled by everyone especially her BF and his family when she goes there EOW and one day thru the week when she arrives everything stops and they become servants to her every need. I can imagine when she goes to kindergarten this fall and tells all the other kids in class that she is prettier than them that will be sad but it's gonna happen it will be good when someone brings her back to reality she could use some of it. I really don't like to go anywhere when she is there because she misbehaves and I get embarassed pretty easily.

Now the 10 year old is not to whiney but she has an awful attitude and makes messes like I've never seen before and together it's like a tornado hit! When she comes in the door all her coats and shoes and whatever else she has just hits the floor so her mom has to tell her 5 times before she will pick it up then she just takes it and does the same with it in her room, she the 10 year old has to clean her room just about everyday because she just destroys it, when they get done eating something it just lays where they sit it down at. I don't clean up after them just because I know that they are more than able to do it themselves. Her attitude is awful she is always so hateful and if asked to do something she is tired or her stomach hurts to get out of it or she just rolls her eyes and pouts about it, and she is not asked to do all that much just to help out a little bit. She has this annoying voice she uses when she is being a smart mouth like she is talking down to me or her mother, I think a belt to the ass would help solve that problem but her mother won't do it. I know most of these faults are because of the parents spoiling them but I can't stand bratty kids it's just not fun to be around this and I know I wouldn't be able to live with them for more than 2 weeks and I'd be packing my things and hit the road even though my GF wants me to move in. I just think for my own happiness and sanity I should get out of this relationship so that hopefully I can find a woman with no kids and maybe she will find a man that can stand to be around her kids. These are just some of the things they do to annoy me there is more but this is getting pretty long so I'll leave it at that. Thanks for listening to me vent for awhile it does feel better to get this out for other people to read that has the same problems.