Hello, my husband and i have been married for 2 years and have a 1 year old. The short of the story is he has 2 kids 9 and 6 that I can't stand! They are brats and he treats them differently than my son. He only sees them once per week. I also wanted to have another child and so did he before we got married but now he says he has 3 kids and doesn't want anymore.

I am feeling like he is giving everything the ex wanted/s but not to me. He says that if I can't enjoy the time his kids are over and be their friend we are never going to move forward with our lives. I don't know what to do. I am not going to live miserably and I don't like his kids. I am nice to them and that is all I want to be. I don't want to attend sporting events and do whatever they ask me to when they are here. If I don't want to play games I am not going to play games.

How can I get him to understand my feelings and let me just be who I am and stop pushing his kids on me. I am never going to like them and no I don't treat them the same as my son because they are not my kids. I love my son. I do not love them. He doesn't understand and wont try. What do I do?