Every time my SS16 comes he tells us what a jerk his sd is, and how SD treats him like crap. We told him our door is always open. He said he's waiting for BM to divorce SD because its something she says she's going to do daily. BM hates me and DH. She's been jealous of us, since I met my skids 13 years ago! And she does her best to not let us see the kids, we get them a few days a year. So, I told ss16, whenever his SD is treating him bad, go to BM and tell her to take care of SD or your moving to BD and SM! Well, he did it! And it worked like a charm! Lol He thanked me for my "great advice" and told me I "RULE"! I gotta admit it feels good! Lol