Why do I have to be the bad guy. I have 2 step children both girls and they are very develop for their age. My goal is to help raise them up to be respectful young women. I don't get how I'm they only one parenting these girls. My husband doesn't say a word about what the girls wear. They like to wear skin tight jeans the ages are 12 and 16. The daughter that is 12 likes her shirts skin tight and her jeans super tight she wears black eye makeup and shiny shiny lip gloss. I really think she is trying to be more grown up than her sister(who is about to b e17)(she is 12 but has a body of a 18-year)As far as the 16 year old she has a bra size of DD and loves to walk around the house with too tight shirts on or low cut tank tops. I just don't get how they think its ok to be have naked when men are in the house. The 12 years walks around with booty shorts , pulls up porn on her cell phone and writes nasty little notes . I'm so over having to tell the girls change your shorts , pull up your top, you really shouldn't wear that because the pants are too tight! It's getting very old.I don't know if my husband feels weird talking to his girls about their attire or he doesn't think its a big deal? Im confused. In my house we 5 girls total. My 14 year old doesn't push the envelope like these girls, the few times that she has i have corrected her behavior.I just don't get how one kid can be so sexual at 12 and you have another who is 14 and that's the last thing on her mind. I can't say anything to the girls about it because every time i do the 12 year old starts to cry and scream about how there is nothing wrong with the way I dress! Please excuse me for venting. I think to myself I don't even walk around the house with skimpy things on because its not good.