I have been trying to get my SD to wear socks since she was 9. Yesterday I go to pick her up from school. She walks right by my car with *boots* on and no socks. I drive to where she went and her stuff is there and she is gone. she returns with tights on and boots and says "sorry i just had to go to the bathroom". I'm letting her dad deal with it but christ, can't her biomom enforce this rule too? She is going to get fired for smelling like feet or something when she is older. She can't make the connection between how bad she smells and her ongoing social difficulties. its the main cause of it, because her mom doesn't make her do these things.