This is gonna be very controversial so I apologize in advance, but I'm a stepparent due to an affair. I'm a lesbian and there mom is as well. Though she was married to her boys' (17 and 14) dad for a bit but during the loveless marriage they had (She struggled with a lot of mental health issues. One of them being her sexuality). I don't want to get too into detail as of right now since it's a LOT of dark stuff to take in but I just want to know if I'm not alone in this. I've been with her for 11 years now. Just want to know if there's anyone else like me.

I have an update. My husband was granted full custody of his two daughters ages 15 and 12 in May 2024 he was granted temporary custody starting September 2023 his daughters have not had any contact with their mother since September 2023.

So we all get along with BM and her husband. We met with them and the kids to go eat and then us and the kids go home. We were all eating and my husband got a steak. As he was eating, BM said she remembered one time (when they were together) when he and her were eating and he got a steak that was dark red and looked bloody. My husband said “yeah and you were gagging the whole time.” Then I said something about how I had one similar to that one time. It was when me and my husband (her ex husband) were eating. He didn’t say anything about it when I brought it up.