My bf pestered the hell out of me for months to move in, now I regret it.  Step-parenting was sprung on me after I gave up my job and place to live.  I had little choice at the time, or so I thought.  I could have run back to my job, retracted my notice, continued to work, then pushed to get an apartment ASAP.  Now I deal with a 24 yo self-entitled, addicted, college drop-out, who has refused to work this last year.  I can’t stand to be in the same room.  His parents, especially his dad, created this monster by enabling the hell out of him.