So I am new to this blog thing but I need some biest opinions and help from others with the same problem.  So here I go. My husband of 5 years together for 9 has 2 girls. When I entered this relationship I knew what I was up against for he was recently separated from his wife of 6 years. I dated him for a few months and see the control she had or tho she had. She would call when we were together asking if he was with me and why I was around so much.