I struggle with a mild depression.

Or maybe I struggle with the negative thought patterns I've learned from being raised by a mother who struggled all her life with severe depression. 
 

How many of you co-parent?

By that i mean,

Share your opinion on their behaviour? Get involved if they misbehave? Chat and trying to keep a good relationship. Getting involved willingly with picking/dropping off alterations? Buying them gifts or anything they're lacking.

If anything ive learnt from this site is to DISengage, get little involvement. But it's hard not to sometimes.

My learnt mistakes: