This iis off topic, but I really need to get some feedback, if you are game. My elderly mom, who I have not spoken to in 10 years, lives in another state and recently fell and broke some ribs. She is a tough old bird, like all the women in my family, and very stubborn. My little sister has 2 young children and lives out of state too, bt she is within driving distance - about 6 hours each way, I think.  Its not an easy drive with a new baby and a young child.