My SD8 lives with my SO and I full time ( I have no bio kids, so its just the 3 of us). She just returned from a nightmare vist with the BioHO. She went through alot of moving around, not having any fun summer activities that kids should have. She was basically passed from one person to the next to sit around and do nothing so her unemployed BioHo could 'hang out with her friends'. So given this, I have been pretty laxed with her because emotionally she is going through alot because of her bad summer.