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DH just got told by his daughters maternal grandmother that she was just caught with marijuana at school. I guess she was trying to sell it online and at school. My DH doesn’t seem to understand why i don’t think it is a good idea to have her around our two younger children. She just turned 13. I just don’t know what to do or what to say. I needed to vent and maybe get some helpful advice & opinions.