This is my first time posting. I found this website because I don't want to keep telling my husband these feelings. Mostly because I know he feels the same way and we both don't know what to do. He ex wife is not a good person. She has been in and out of the kids lives for 3 years. It all started when she left them in his drive way to move to Texas in the middle of the night. She has come and gone but this time has stayed for a year. I am pretty sure it's because I am now permanently in the picture and she realized she might actually lose her kids to someone stable.