I’m 25 years old with no kids and I do pretty well for myself. Anything I need I can get for myself. I’ve been with my boyfriend (32) for almost a year and half now. We moved pretty quickly, he moved in about 6 mos. into the relationship. He’s still trying to get his career path together (working side jobs) and he has a 5 year old son with autism. His bm is damn near bipolar and always has issues with him.