Background: SS is 16, came into his life at 5. Almost two months ago, he blew up saying he was done with me forever. Will not talk or see me, will only see my wife and our two toddlers outside the home. He, my wife, and in-laws blame me for this situation. Let me break this down into my general observations over the years:

MIL: Verbally abusive to my wife/SS' mom in front of SS while they all lived together his first five years. SS and MIL when visiting after would argue after a couple of days of being together, pretty consistently