I've come here because I need advice on how to handle the situation. Little background. I have a SD16 almost 17 living in our home now for little over a year. She was originally living with her mother in another state. I have been in this child's life since she was 4. Married to her dad for almost 10 years. So I am not a new addition in her life. She wanted to move in with us because she wasn't getting along with her mother and step father.