As the weekend approaches I start to get anxious.  I couldn't figure it out at first then realized it's because the SD-14 will be over and I anticipate drama and tenstion as that has been the case.  Even when she ignores me the tension is in the air.  I have started to try and disengage and do my own thing but that put her on the familyroom tv playing video games, which aren't allowed at her mom's house, and me in my room or at the kitchen counter making myself busy.  I don't mind the video game playing, it keeps her out of her room and gives her time with her father.