Guess who called multiple times today to ensure that the kids would be picked up today even though this is the 2nd weekend of may according to standard possession schedule!!!

My husband and I had a blowout of course! He was on BMs side and said "you dont get to tell me when i can and cannot see my kids!!"... I responded that i am not telling him, but the State of Texas is telling him....Then he said "what if I want extra time"....Oh you poor fool (i thought that to myself of course lol)...."So then i said if u want extra time that isnt under the court order, then why dont u both go to court and file for modification of custody from standard to extended...of course this may require a child support review and I doubt DB (dumb bitch) would want that"...

He got quiet. Then called his kids to let them know that next pickup time isnt this weekend but next weekend on the 21st. Dumb Bitch lost it!! WHAT!! Cant spend the weekend supplying wine and cocktails to teens at her home!! OH NO lol

She immediately called MIL to ask what was going on. MIL asked her to hold and contacted me....I provided a screenshot of the court order as well as an explanation regarding the 1st/3rd/5th weekends for the month of April and May. Then i screenshotted the calendar with color coded days and titles of the weekends loool

Her response to MIL : "Understood. I will not beg him to see his kids". MIL didnt respond back because she knows its BS. The kids are coming over on the 21st and she acts like he doesnt see them when we literally follow the schedule on the court order. Before that, Dumb Bitch would pick any given days or weekends to drop her kids off and she loved it. This would also mean that Dumb Bitch frequently went on "ignore" spells when the kids wouldnt be seen for months. If he wasnt following the court order, he would prob never see his kids and the Dumb Bitch acts concerned all of a sudden about daddy seeing his kids lool

Well my husband and I are not on speaking terms but I feel like its a win win for me. I dont get to deal with them and I dont have to deal with his moaning eithet....FREEDOM like the Aretha Franklin song!! 

June 1st will be another battle as i will be enforcing a specific communication regarding the summer break schedule as well as personal hygiene as the kids dont bathe or brush their teeth!!

Who else overcame the aftermath of skipping a weekend in May due to the mothers day holiday? I know the BMs are losing their shit over having to care for their children two weekends in a row!!!