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Poking the hornets nest

Aislinn81's picture

I almost want to take bets on how BM is going to reply to DH's e-mail we had to send.

The school sent a letter this weekend about SS's tardy's. SS had 12 tardy's as of last Wednesday. Our district counts every 3rd tardy as an unexcused absence. So that's 4 absences, in addition to the 4 he already has (because BM kept him home for funsies). If he misses much more school, they can actually request he repeat the 3rd grade...

SD has 6 tardy's as of this morning as well as 4 absences.

BM is responsible for all of those absences and tardy's. The kids always go to school on our days. So DH sent her an e-mail to make her aware and will be sending her a copy of the letter from the school this evening.

I know her excuse is her pregnancy and the new baby's birth.

I bet one of the following:

1) She'll reply with a big ol' fuck you DH.

2) She'll whine because her house is too far away from their current schools (even though they are court ordered to go there and she KNEW that when she chose to buy this house, she's still only 15 minutes away).

3) She'll ignore us and the kids will continue to be late to school.

4) She'll ask what we have in mind, then when she learns that I offered (yes I did) to pick the kids up every morning and take them to school, she'll decline since it makes her look bad.

Be interesting to see...

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babymommadrama3's picture

LOL I just had DH offer me to take my SD's half brother to school in the mornings (she lives in our neighborhood) because of issues on the kids' bus. We let her know SD will not be on the bus on our watch due to issues we hnow know about and hearing SD talk about what her brother is going through I was shocked BM hasn't been taking him herself already.

Aislinn81's picture

Oh trust me, I really don't want to have to get up early every morning and drive over there to get the kids and take them to school in the morning. It especially pisses me off because DH has to be at work at 7, and me at 8. BM is a manager of a bank and when she's NOT off for maternity leave, can go in whenever she wants. Her husband also used to work for a bank and didn't have to be in until 9. Now he's unemployed so he can be house bitch when BM goes back to work.

But education is important to DH and I and if I have to do it to make sure those kids get to school on time then I will. Cause that's what a damn parent does. (Sorry, high horse, she makes me angry).

babymommadrama3's picture

Well I take BDs to school and daycare every day since I have them all the time and I take Sd about 70% of the time (with us on weekdays) so whats a 4th kids after all that? LOL

Aislinn81's picture

LOL, same thing here. My BD goes to school at the same school as SS, so I'm going there anyway.

Aislinn81's picture

Oh and they also have a half day tomorrow. DH sent her a text this morning and asked if she would pick up both kids from school at noon and he would get them from her when he gets off work at 3:30. She never responded.

Five bucks says she keeps them home tomorrow so she can spend more time with them before they are with us for half of Xmas break. *sigh*

Aislinn81's picture

Ha! Oh yes, the WHOLE school knows that she's prego. All the tardy slips are "Mom overslept" or notes about how her system needs more sleep than she's getting or she's prego and can't do this and that.

The world must stop spinning IMMEDIATELY because she is spewing forth!