Did I Do Something Wrong?????
Ok...so my husband and I married 3 weeks ago in another country. Some of our family and friends attended, but my SS8 did not. Anyway, SS keeps asking about the wedding, so I asked him if he wanted to see some pics. He said yes. However, my husbands's response was "aren't your working on the computer?" Now earlier, my husband did ask me to look something up for him, but I told him I was busy doing somehthing else. (The pics are on computer, I haven't printed them yet) After I showed him the pics, I asked DH if I had done something wrong...his response... "you just seemed so gun-hoe to show the pics to him and when I asked you to do something you said you couldn't". Was I not supposed to show SS the pics? Did I handle this wrong? Please help before I go in on this mofo husband of mine! I'm sick him copping these little childish ass attitudes!
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Maybe he wanted to share the
Maybe he wanted to share the pics with his son,
Maybe he wants to put them into an album and give them as a gift to his son.
Maybe he feels guilty his son wasn't there and feels you are rubbing his sons face that he was absent.
Whatever the reason, he should tell you beforehand. "I want to show SS/BS our photos. Can you hold off on showing him? Thanks."
"I feel guitly SS/BS wasn't there. Can we not show him the pics for a couple of weeks?"
And this gives you the cance to say "Well SS/BS keeps asking me for them. If you haven't shown him in a week I am showing him. Sounds like you are ashamed of me..."
Whatever you do just ask him why he doesn't want SS/BS to see the photos. And that will be your answer, like it or not.
I asked him weeks ago if he
I asked him weeks ago if he felt badly about it and he said "no". So perhaps I am supposed to read his mind and make the determination that he doesn't want his son to see the pics. I just remember being a little younger than SS when my mom married my SF. They went to the courthouse and came back and were married. I always wished their were some pics of their wedding.
I think we're on the fence on
I think we're on the fence on this one as well. I dont think that SD needs to be at our wedding. Yes it his daughter, but the wedding is me and him joining. I wast at my dad/sm's wedding.. thats them joining.
FDH on the other hand has made the comment about if/when BM and her bf get married how wrong it would be if SD isnt there...why?