MMM has done the same thing LOL It was late by 1 day b/c of the holiday and she was having a major meltdown.

Oh yeah BM used to call and say "Where's my money??" all the time. SO gets paid on the 7th and 22nd and she wanted the money first thing in the morning on those days. Uhhhh he is at work and hasn't gone to the bank yet. So she would try to go pick up his check to take it to the bank for him so she could get her hands on the money. Yeah like that was gonna happen!!! Oh and demanding that it be in cash also.

Once she went to court it now goes through his employer so she gets her precious money like a week after payday }:)

Yep yuckopotamus did the same thing all the time til finally she had a case set up through CS and saw that dh was 1k AHEAD and she didn't get any money for a while! lol }:)

Answer: Call the CSE office and bitch at them. I do not write you the check. They do. They get the CS money that I provide for my children straight out of my paycheck. Have a great day. Bubye! CLICK! buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz"

Our BM is the same way - she'll bitch and moan that she's broke and needs her money, yet it's spent even before she has a chance to cash it! She used to get it directly from DH, but he used to hold it back (bad, I know!) whenever she pissed him off. So then she got FRO (Family Responsibility Office in Ontario Canada) to deal with it and now she gets her cheques through them. HOWEVER, whenever she doesn't get her cheques right away (due to holidays or whatnot), she bitches to DH about it :S She used to always use FRO to threaten DH about the cheques, then get rid of them when she had to wait for her cheques. It's so aggravating - CS is deducted every month from DH's salary and the family business writes those cheques, so DH doesn't seen any of what goes on. It's not HIS fault that BM is broke every month because of her frivolous spending, and he's never been cited by FRO for being late with his payments.