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This is not a step parenting problem but it is an in law. Long story short after I had DS back in October DH was fired 2 weeks later over some crap and because he lost his job we lost our house so we were forced to move in with *sighs* MIL. I was still trying to recover from my c-section and from getting my tubes tied but my MIL did not care. She still made me take care of my kids and her reason was because she was a single mother who had no help. The first 2 weeks weren't bad but after that things went bad.

Im ashamed to say....

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That it sure is nice to not have to deal with BM or BM² and since DH is working for someone else now for now he is getting his whole paycheck and will be getting the majority of it even after cs gets taken out. We don't see the boys so its almost like they don't exist. I know its wrong to feel this way but at least I'm being honest about it. MIL says BM is trying to move back here but I'm hoping she stays away because she is drama. But with her getting less cs she might try and come back.

According to MIL

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According to mil SS deserves every penny of cs that DH pays because he is the oldest and that if DH filed for a modification that would not be fair but its not fair to my 3 kids that their dads check is always gone. But everything has worked out since DH got a reduction in cs. BM and MIL will be thoroughly pissed off.

Reduction in CS

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Hey everyone DH got a call from the OAG and they have given him a new case worker who not only is pissed that BM left the state with SS10 but she has decided as of February 2013 DH will only be paying $140 a month on child support because BM broke the law and has made it difficult for DH to see SS!

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I made a Skype account and low and behold BM² has an account. See, anytime I join a site I make sure to check for her because when I didn't she started that stalking and harassing crap. She found me on Twitter and that's how she found out me and DH got married. My friend thinks BM² probably joins these sites in hopes to find me.

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