So SS16 will be working 2 nights a week and all day Saturday. DH talked to BM and SS16 will be staying will her this weekend and working. DH, SS11 and I will be heading to our summer home

DH came to the conclusion that SS16 needs deal with missing out on our weekends away. DH dropped off our beater-car at BM's for SS16 to use (to get back and forth to work) while we're gone. SS16 is to meet us at our house when we get back.

There are rules - SS16 is only allowed to put 20 miles on the car, if he goes over he owes us a tank of gas. I'm okay with this.

BUT DH and I did get into it last night as DH was hinting at us cutting our August family vacation short so SS16 can work. I told DH we needed to discuss this further. I'm open TO DH cutting HIS vacation short but MY vacation is not going to change.

~BettyRay