Maybe you should ask SD to borrow the shirt and when you know you are going to see her, wear it and say isn't this a nice shirt.. I borrowed it from SD. Smile and walk away. Maybe smack your self in front of her and laugh evil and walk away.. LOL.. Tell me that would not get her. And you really wouldn't be saying anything... or starting anything blantantly.. Or read yoru shirt and BITCH SLAP HER.. OOPS your bad..

Happy
"live life to its fullest everyday"

"I have no idea how those bleach stains got all over that darling shirt!" Heavens to Betsy- that woman must be a constant joy in your life. Only a sick twisted b*tch from hell would let their child wear something that innapropriate. But to give her a reaction would be exactly what she must deperately be craving from you. Let me guess, you have never seen this shirt in BB right? So she plays dirty and gets SD to do her bidding. Utter chickensh*t, I do declare. Get rid of that shirt, SD should not wear such trash. If BB has problem-tough.

That is the craziest thing.....I would never let a 10 year old wear a shirt like that. We dont' even like the SKs wear anything that has skulls or says anything mean about siblings. etc. What an idiot to instill hate in a 10 year old. And she'll wonder in a few years why her daughter is getting beat up at school........
I would send it back and say something like "We dont' allow SD to wear shirts with foul language, so please keep this shirt at your house." If she keeps sending it back, don't send it back to her house and restate what you've said.
However, the bleach thing is pretty darn funny

Not only because she's using her daughter on an "inside joke" (really, can people on this website draw up tshirts that say "bitch slap BM"- they's sell like mad! )

Seriously, though. I would not let that shirt be worn in my home or come back from moms. We've had similar issues with shirts with innappropriate sayings. They don't see the light of day and don't come back.

And I would not let it even begin. How frustrating for her that she went so far out of her way to try to get to you, and it DIDN'T have ANY effect on you whatsoever. I think I my case I would have DH call BM and tell her that the language on that shirt is innappropriate, giving NO indication that you had even seen it. Just a simple "I was unpacking SD's stuff and came across this shirt, I would appreciate it if you didn't allow our daughter to wear cloting with such innappropriate verbage on it, she is 10." And leave it at that. Send it back to her house. She will never know that you saw it, and the bottom line is EVEN IF she was not calling you "Barbie" and all that jazz, it is WAY out of line to let a child wear such articles. That would be my first complaint.

Daddys Gurl

It's Better To Have Loved And Lost, Than To Have Spent The Rest Of My Life With THAT PSYCHO!!!!

Her FATHER should take the shirt and throw it away, then call the BM and tell her that it's inappropriate for a child that age to wear a shirt like that, especially considering it contains profanity and was meant to hurt the child's stepmother. He should also have a talk with SD about what is and is not appropriate treatment of her stepmother and that she must not let her mother's bitterness distort her own judgments of the people in her life. Then he should apologize to YOU for the ugliness inflicted upon you by his ex and his child.

Yeah, I know. I'm living in a dream world. Anyone care to join me?

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"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."
(Truman Capote)

don't let her know your reaction. She sounds like the BM we have to deal with around here. Gets off on making us mad. I would ask hubby to talk to his sd and say that this shirt is not appropriate for her to wear at your house because it has foul language on it. If it comes back a million times, just reinforce that she is not allowed to wear it while she is with you. Chances are BM will be notified from the school that this is not an appropriate shirt to wear and things will just die down.

Yeah it would leave the house in hefty. If (especially at that age) it is not appropriate in school or if you would not let her wear it to your parents house make it magically disappear since BB can't figure out its not right.

You have to get rid of the words bitch slap and the skull and then give it to SD to wear. So it just says 'Barbie' therefore looking like a little clone of you. Let her wear it in front of Bm and when she asks, just sweetly say that DH found it inappropriate to have those profanities on a little girls shirt..looks much nicer now, don't ya think?!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

She diffidently thinks you're 'dense' if she makes comments to you as reference to Barbie, and then sends this shirt... yep.

Get rid of the shirt, hell bury, burn it in the grill, whatever... (use a picture of BM to start it...) whip your hands clean.

Too bad you couldn't send over a bottle of 'shampoo', that's been replaced with Veet (3 minute hair remover)...

StepMom

Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...

Lovers do not finally meet somewhere, they were with each other all along.

Except bm and her mother came up with the name "Bubbles" for me as they said I looked like a stripper,lol....(Im a friggin cop ladies!) This comment came after dh and I had spent the day at the lake with ss and my kids(when we first started dating) and dropped off ss..I happend to be wearing my bathing suit with a pair of shorts. I just marked it off to jealousy as I am a natural blue eyed blonde with a natural 38d chest...not my fault she has no boobs and was a frumpy brunette at the time...Funny thing is it didnt take long before she had her colored blonde, was wearing it the same way I did...(naturally straight here) bm has naturally curly so her bleach blonde straightened hair looked way out of place on her.......yuk....I take no offence as it is jealousy that makes any woman, bm or not to react this way to another woman, merely based on the other womans appearance.Thus I would take the barbie name calling as a compliment as barbie is one HOT lady!!,lol,lol. Although the biotch name on the shirt is waaaaaaaaay inappropriate for a 10 year old, definatley have dh speak with bm on this issue as he is the father.

Sorry found this amusing...I always wanted to look like Barbie but...

Fact: If Barbie were a real woman-She would have to grow to be seven feet tall. She would have a bust that was between 38-40 inches, her waist 18-24 inches, her hips around 33-35 inches. Barbie's weight would be 110 pounds. If she were a real woman-Barbie would have to walk on all fours due to her proportions.

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

That says "Jealousy becomes you" and give it to her with a big beautiful smile.

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