I have been dating my bf for almost five years, I refuse to live with him because of skids. Most particularly sd (21 years old) who I can't stand at all. I have a relationship with ss (23 years old), but I don't make any effort to talk with SD at all. She is rude, manipulative and immature as the day is long. Of course bf does not see this and always has a comment about how I don't "extend" myself to SD. I broke off the relationship in October and he contacted me and I ended up going back into and now I feel like I am right back where i was. Spending my days consumed with thinking about sd and how much I literally hate her and can't stand having to be a phony and even having to pretend that I care one bit about her, I don't. Why do I do this to myself? BF and I have had our issues but he is trying. Right now I haven't seen her except for her nasty picture on fb and I am dreading having to interact with her ever again. If you were in my position, not married to someone and knew that you hated their daughter, would you bother to stick around. Truth is that she is 21, still has yet to complete one full semester of college without dropping a course, is taking time off because she is stressed out, so she is not getting out of the picture any time soon. Am I just wasting my time ? I do love bf but I am honestly not sure it is enough to have to deal with her and her bs again.

Please share your thoughts, thank you.