She's at it again, second time this week. BM sent my husband a 3 month calender out lining visitation for the summer. SD is scheduled to be with us for the next 2 weeks, BM knows, because she is such a freak when it comes to having all the control and say. While SD is here with us, she goes home every Wednesday to have dinner with her BM. Well yesterday, BM called and asked SD who is 12 if she was coming to dinner tomorrow night. Im so tired of BM thinking she can change the schedule and do as she pleases. Im tired of her ruining our plans, and making us to be the bad guys. I don't understand why its so hard for her to stick to a schedule she created. We have a family reunion this weekend 3 hours away and she drops that her sister is coming to visit and would like us to reschedule our trip to accommodate her schedule. Then she asked if we can also switch SD's Birthday Party so that she can spend time with her Aunt that lives out of state. Why is it, that she feels she can tell or expect us to do. BM is so self centered and the only person she ever thinks of is herself. According to my husbands parenting plan, this year SD is to spend her birthday with us, not with BM. I have children from a previous and would never act in the matter that my husband ex wife does. I so wish I could really tell her what I think of her and her lack of consideration for her own child's happiness. Why is it some BM's feel they are entitled?