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I sent the ex a letter

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Submitted by BusyB on Fri, 08/20/2010 - 12:37pm

asking her to forgive me and that I apologize for my past actions. Even though I feel that she has been the one who has created this mess. I had to do it for my peace of mind. I will no longer let her burdens be mine, I'm not accountable for her actions. My role as a step parent is to support her and my husband decisions regarding my SD. I understand and accept that responsibility. Negativity and animosity is like an infectious disease and I will not allow it to take control of my life.

BM really needs to stick to the schedule she created.

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Submitted by BusyB on Thu, 08/19/2010 - 7:31pm

She's at it again, second time this week. BM sent my husband a 3 month calender out lining visitation for the summer. SD is scheduled to be with us for the next 2 weeks, BM knows, because she is such a freak when it comes to having all the control and say. While SD is here with us, she goes home every Wednesday to have dinner with her BM. Well yesterday, BM called and asked SD who is 12 if she was coming to dinner tomorrow night. Im so tired of BM thinking she can change the schedule and do as she pleases. Im tired of her ruining our plans, and making us to be the bad guys.

How do deal with my husbands ex wife.

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Submitted by BusyB on Wed, 08/18/2010 - 4:55pm

I have been married for seven years to my husband. About 3 years ago we moved to be closer to his daughter. For the first 2 years I put up with his bitter revengeful ex wife. Since day one, she has been the thorn in my side. She gets regular child support and still expects for my husband to pay for other expenses for his daughter. In the mean time, she does not work and has not worked in 8 years. She is remarried and her husband makes really good money. In the past she would always complain she is broke and never has any money.