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Stain Strikes Again

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Submitted by buttercookie on Sun, 05/01/2011 - 4:10pm

After almost an entire year of bliss (short a couple of months of a year) Stain ruined the day. Stains car broke down and Husband doesn't want to drive him around since Stain never talks to him unless he wants something. No Merry Christmas call or text, no Happy Birthday text, not even a piss off text. So husband says Stain is an adult and is able to get around without him, ok whatever, I'm supporting my husband especially if Stain isn't even talking to him at all. I understand the not buying love and teaching the adult kids to figure stuff out, I'm doing it with MY OWN daughter.Now Husband is in a crappy mood towards me. Hell I'm the one that told him that he could take MY car to get Stain from work and take him home and if he needed to he could use MY car to help stain out when I'm not using it for WORK. (We recently went to one car household, husbands choice since he has a bike) Now I'm NOT getting accused of doing anything to Stain by my husband, I'm sure Stains blaming me, but I'm taking the brunt of my husbands bad mood since he didn't raise his kids to not be entitled, spoiled pieces of litterbox particles. I'm just venting here. I'm just pissed how this ADULT kid can come out of the clear blue and screw up my day because my husband chooses to be a butt to me because his kid is worthless. BTW Stain is the youngest one, he's not the one with the mustang. Why is it these men think we are here to be used and verbally abused by or because of their kids. I feel like passing out condoms or lobbying for forced sterilization until people take parenting classes. Just cuz you can have a kid don't mean you should. Grrrr Thanks for listening.

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Submitted by Done WIth It on Sun, 05/01/2011 - 4:40pm

buttercookie...easier to take it out on you, that's why.

I have to tell you, though. Got a friend here who called so upset with her "dipsh!% son" (her words). Being lazy and wanting everyone to hand over the dough to him, he wrote a letter to his step mom (who has since remarried) and asked if she'd send him half of what she rec'd from his dad's life insurance and any benefits.

My friend is just mortified!! She'd divorced the father years before the dad had remarried this woman. Then, after a couple of years being married, he committed suicide. The man has been dead for close to 15 years....and sonny boy just writes this letter.

The kid had been receiving benefits to about age 18. His momma, my friend, always obliged him but now, she wants him to be responsible, get a job, get a life. That's not happening.

So you see chickadee....my friend is extraordinarily embarrassed (we live in a very small town) and the SM didn't even answer the letter. I'm sure out of respect to my friend. Seems no one is safe with some of these kids...birth mothers or step mothers.