So often I've seen posts on here about pics of DH & BM's wedding at IL's ... yesterday we were at SO's mom's to find another suitcase for our upcoming trip ... we had to go in her basement (where I've never really gone) ... and as we were heading out of one room and into another, I look in the corner and there's a tri-fold display of family pics .... and what is one of them? A pic of SO & BM at their wedding. I just started laughing b/c first it made me think of this site and how helpful reading it has been (wish I'd found it sooner than 3 years into my relationship!!!) and then I chuckled b/c it's in the basement, stashed away in a corner, where no one goes ... which is fine with me, SO's mom always tells him how much she likes me and what a great catch I am and how he better not do anything to lose me ... and she has pics up of me in the living areas of her home ... nothing really pertinent about this post I guess, but just wanted to let you all know that even though I don't have a lot to say on here, I thought of you (sorry it was while seeing a pic of BM)...