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OMFGawd...I GET IT OKAY!!!! You think the baby is ugly......now shut up about it!

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Submitted by cant win for losin on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 2:52pm

I just seriously need to vent for a second. Sometimes fdh just doesn't know when to stfu! He doesn't have that filter to realize (actually I don't think he really even cares at times) of when he crosses the line of what he has said is (or has) become mean, rude, unnecessary, etc...

There is a baby in my family that he finds "not very cute" Okay, I get it. The baby isn't that cute. Personally, yes I've seen cuter. But whatever. Me and him would never in a million years voice this outside of just the two of us. But he says it over and over and over. EVERY TIME he sees a pic of the baby. Now the fist time he said it, we talked and I pretty much said, "yeah, the baby isn't overly cute." End of convo. The second time, he bring it up. Totally emphasizing how much he really thinks this baby is NOT cute. My reply, "riiight" No real convo continues. The next hand full of times he says it again, my reply is "sigh, I know dear. I heard you before"

Well today it's like, STFU! He sees another picture and starts to say something so I say, "OKAY! I GET IT. YOU don't think the baby is cute. You DON'T have to keep going on and on about it. There are people in YOUR FAMILY that I find ugly and I don't say shit about it every time i see them."

SILENCE........................ Wink

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 3:51pm

Good on you for knocking him down a peg.

BTW - I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that it's not just babies he picks on.

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Submitted by cant win for losin on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 10:52pm

Nope, not just the babies. He runs his mouth sometimes a little too much. There is an ongoing joke that I call him a snob quite often. It is one of them jokes that has some truth to it.
He was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and carries some of that mentality that I cannot stand about his family with him. The better thing about him compared to his family is that I can "knock him down a peg" when he starts flappin his jaws and getting carried away. So that is good.
Sometimes I just call him a snob and not listen by walking away, this time I just shut him up. It was kind of humorous how quiet he got after I said that though. lol

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Submitted by cant win for losin on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 10:48pm

Very interesting thought of not liking the person (pretty much the baby's parents) I could see that in a general sense. But actually in this case, nah. This is actually a cousin of mine. (i guess this baby would be like a 2nd cousin? how ever that works) Him and I both get along great with my cousins. (the whole slew of them lol) So much so that we hang out with them MORE than his family.

Like I said in the post, I agree the baby isn't that cute. I'm not a biased person just because this baby is family. Yeah, I admit it, the baby isn't as cute. Enough said once or twice. hell, enough said if he says it a couple times a year, but to go on and on and on about it....*sigh* It actually makes me see HIM as ugly. (inside) if that makes sense.

It's all good. I shut him up. LMAO And I meant what I said he has a sister and some nieces and nephews that make me think the same way he is every time i see them, or a pic of them. I just shut up and move on. He can be a rude snob at times and this was one of them and it pissed me off! }:)