Update after 2 weeks!

So it has been 2 weeks since the Skids have left to live with their dad. It has been total bliss! No stress, no dread, no anxiety at all!!!!!

SO has been depressed at times, but we have talked through it. We are still seeing a counselor and have a couple more hurdles to get over. But she has seen the light and her guilt for sending them away it going away.

She now is glad that they are seeing that the grass is not always greener, she has told them that we are still getting married and you are either with us or against us.

We both agree that SS18 is never allowed back in the house, but SD15 can come back if she agrees to counseling for a few sessions and agrees to sign a contract of behavior. But so far she is being stubborn and said she never wants to come back.

have fun in that 1 bedroom apartment with a dad that sleeps all day and does nothing for you while I am in my 4 bedroom home all stretched out and comfortable. LOLOLOL

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I'm so jealous. CONGRATS!

WOW! To get her to stop

WOW! To get her to stop pining after her kids in that short period of time is nothing short of monumental. In my case, GG refuses to go to counseling. He feels his kids are pining after him after they PASed out almost 3 and 4 years ago!

Little does he know that they probably haven't thought about him since the day they last darkened my doorstep. And why should they? They have totally beer bonged the PAS koolaid and lost all respect for daddykins who was always kissing their ass. When he stopped kissing their backsides for more than twenty seconds, they basically walked out.

So because he will not confront the free ranging BM's "parental sovereignty" and actually parent, he takes his anger out on me.

He accuses me of PASing out his kids and spews the most vile hatred toward me whenever he starts to pine after them and "self-medicate" with bourbon (i.e. I'm worse than the BM, the "c" word, death threats, etc. etc)

We live a miserable existence, scraping by on my salary doing constant remodeling on the moneypit of a dump that I bought at his urging so he could be "closer to the kids" (TM). All his money goes to CS.

He does not appreciate me one iota for everything I've done for him. He feels I am obligated to him since I was the "straw that broke the back of his marriage" (although he says his marriage was over YEARS before I came on the scene--somehow I doubt that).

Nice! If you had any sense of

Nice!

If you had any sense of what her 2 kids put us through, including my 8 year old daughter you would know. They are 2 spoiled little brats who never appreciated anything that anyone has done for them. They will take and take and take and not utter thank you. Then stab you int he back as soon as your back turns.

her kids are in a safe environment, being fed and have clothes on their back. Tough love is sometimes tough.

Don't bag on me because you couldn't make your own relationship work.

Yes a terrible parent. Yes

Yes a terrible parent. Yes she never held them accountable. She knows this and is accepting of this. Is she working on it now yes.

"Then she dumped them when she got a new man in her life." WTF did this come from? I have been in her and her kids life for awhile now.

Maybe your reading comprehension need a little bit of work.

i have noticed on this site that there are certain people that always suggest "leave now" These are usually the ones that can't make their own relationship work or their own relationship sucks so bad they want others to be as miserable as them.