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Lying SS

So worthless SS18 pulled it out of his ass and got into college and been there for about 2 weeks. But of course he didn't listen to anyone and did not get a job to save up some cash before he left. Pokemon, drinking and smoking were way too important.

College woes

Well it is official SS18 will not be going to college. he waited around way too long and failed to get the financial aid that he needed to cover the semester. I told him back in March not to wait and spend time researching grants and scholarships. But he decided playing pokemon and being on FB was way too important. but what do I know.

SS18 and his college woes lol

STBSS18 is supposed to go to college next month. Well as I have stated in my previous blogs he now lives with his dad since I will kill him if he steps foot on my property again.

We get a text from BF that he SS is short 2500.00 to get in college and needs to have it by Aug 10th. he then stated that STBDW has to co-sign on a loan for the remainder of amount. i said oh hell no! No way that I am going to be on the hook for money that this lazy ass kid will never pay back if (and that is a huge IF) he finishes college.

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Skids and their issues

My Skids do not live with us, or do not come around at all for many reasons (you can read my prior blogs to learn why) I have not seen them for a long time which is fine by me.

But I do hear about them from my DW. She tells me about how miserable they are with BF and how they only text her when they want something.

Now none of this really affects me at all, it does not affect my DD9 or my DS19, my money or my house. But is still pisses me off to hear about them or what they are up to.

I don't know if this is normal.

A storm

A feel a storm is a comin!

Yep between me and my SO's Ex husband. I refuse to keep my mouth shut any longer and let the harrasing texts and comments continue.

That is all.

Been a long time update

So me and future DW have been getting a long great for the past month or so. i think we have really turned a corner in our relationship. I have less and less feelings that she is going to revert back to her old ways and give in to the 2 spawns of hell she calls her kids.

SD15 has stated over and over that she hates to live with her dad, but refuses to live with me, so oh well, live in a 1 bedroom apartment where you are forced to sleep on a couch. Have fun with that lol.

Think we got it figured out

So SO gets on her phone yesterday to ask her Mom what we should do about Easter. Her Mom (who I love to death) tells her that me and BD should come over for Easter, and SO should tell Ex to drop off the SKids. But she should also tell them that I will be there with BD.

I told SO that is fine as long as it is just SD15 and not SS18. If SS18 shows up I will have to leave with BD.

Now I know that neither will show up since I am going to be there, or Ex will forbid them to be there since I will be there.

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Easter

If you have been reading my blog you know that I can't be in the same room as my SO's kids. This is mainly for the safety of my daughter, since I do not trust her SS18 around my BD8.

This weekend of course is Easter and my SO's mother always has a large dinner with all of the family. My SO does not know what to do, neither do I since we all usually go.

Do I just sit at home my BD? Does she say that her kids can't go to her own family's dinner?

I am so depressed today and am thinking is this all worth it?

POS BF!

Everyone knows that my SO's kids now live with their POS father. I am not going to go into why they live there now, you all can read my past blogs.

Well POS BF at least once a week will text harass my SO. The last one went on some rant on how she is probably sucking and Fing me every night while her kids are miserable at his house. I was pretty livid, but I am trying my best to just listen and not blow up. The next day he texted her and apologized. Whatever idiot.

Update after 2 weeks!

So it has been 2 weeks since the Skids have left to live with their dad. It has been total bliss! No stress, no dread, no anxiety at all!!!!!

SO has been depressed at times, but we have talked through it. We are still seeing a counselor and have a couple more hurdles to get over. But she has seen the light and her guilt for sending them away it going away.

She now is glad that they are seeing that the grass is not always greener, she has told them that we are still getting married and you are either with us or against us.

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