We have been married 4yrs. We live in a rent stabilized apt in a very large city and left for a month or two. Upon arriving home, we realized he had moved in with wife and child and refuses to leave. He doesn't have a job and his wife so far is supporting him. He uses coke regularly and can be violent. He DOES NOT have a lease. When I asked (very nicely) the wife to vacate our home, the son went ballistic and threatened my husband and I..I am not elderley and I don't take 'garbage' from anyone, however, I do believe this insane person will do what he says. This is a huge high rise apt and the landlord doesn't know a thing about this..of course we loose our rent stabilization if we don't reside there. The wife sends us the rent and we send it to the management co. I have decided that if the time comes and the owner asks, my husband and I will break the rent stabilized lease and the son will end up where he ends up. We have found another apt elsewhere. This idiot calls incessantly ranting and raving. I told my husband that I will not tolerate this and he better put a stop to it. This is my life, I am in my mid fifties, I am not going to let some coke head ruin the precious time I have left. Does anyone care to share?