Very happy to report that my husband had a talk with the BM about the FB situation and told her that if this is not resolved IMMEDIATELY that he will be cutting all contact with ex-SD's immediately (which means dropping her off to her mom today after school rather than bringing her home. BM begged for this not to happen and he said only way we go forward with this is if we sit down to talk about rules that will be inforced across households and the manipulation that the SDs are trying to use to get what they want in the various houses.

I am happy to say I feel very supported right now. Fingers crossed