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creepedout60's picture

anyone having issues with adult step kids? Anyone else get death threats left on cell phone by step dtr?

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creepedout60's picture

saved the threat on cell phone will transfer the call to a tape recorder hubby in Iraq, unaware of this but he got all her ugly emails how she hates me since before marriage almost 20 years ago, it's so sick

creepedout60's picture

well I have 2 step dtrs, almost 29 and 31. All they want from us is money, cars, dental work, profits from sale of home and we get in return a kick in the teeth! I loved the Anna Nicole comment and Ms Weinhouse is a skank-o-matic! My stepdtrs whine behind my back to hubby, sending secret emails to him in Iraq, complaining about me. He responded in a nasty way, then deleted the dozens more. Can't wait to tell him about death threat.

TheWife's picture

Oh Christ.

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Rome wasn't built in a day, and my marriage won't be either.

Smonster's picture

Biggrin

Had to edit this, I am commenting on The Wife and DISbelief - not the poster!

Denial's picture

Issues with adult step kids? Yes, but he's not quite an adult, but close enough at 16. He's been arrested for selling/using drugs, he lies, steals, very aggressive.

Death threats on your cell phone - not cool. Have you talked to your spouse, more importantly - have you notified the police. If it truly is a threatening message - you can never be too safe.

creepedout60's picture

husband is in Iraq, he has enough on his plate, mortars, guns firing at helicopter he is in etc. She is 31 we've been married almost 20 years, she said she would never kill me cause I am her dad's best friend and he would be sad if I were dead H E L P

smnikki's picture

then why are you worried, if she said she wouldnt? im confused? at 31 if shes leaving you messages...i wonder, does she have a drinking problem? has she ever been told by an authority to attend counseling or anything like that...has she been diagnosed with any type of mental disorder that you actually think she capable of killing you? after 20 years, why now? if she was going to kill you wouldnt she have done it all already?

creepedout60's picture

the whole relationship has been uncomfortable, to say the least. Yes 20 years is a long time, and she was told by her GYN a number of years back she needs therapy and anti depressant meds. She doesn't drink, smoke or do drugs. She thinks I am mean to her dad, she says she "sees the hurt in his eyes" and "just knows" quite the contrary. Even if I were mean to her dad it is none of her business. She also says we don't spend enough time with her kids. Well after 20 years I find out she has hated me before I married her dad (6 months prior) well it all fits into place why nothing ever worked for her. She has major issues, and even admitted it to me, she has problems and is trying to work thru them. She has nothing but enablers in her life, she whines her stories to her family, in laws etc, and they fuel her fire. She wants to kill me probably because I stood up to her for the first time and she didn't like it. I'm tired of hearing her say I won't LET her dad have a relationship with her and her family. Untrue. I'm 49, we have 5 kids 4 are married and 8 grandkids, I am thru with BS from grown kids, if you don't like how things are change them! We have an open door, leave your weapons at the door please. Lol

creepedout60's picture

i did give her opportunity to apologize, it was so-so I am pretty much nervous now. Have a large home with major security. Don't wanna rock her boat, I just don't know.....................we did talk after threat so.....will for sure let hubby know within a few weeks from now when he is home

creepedout60's picture

totally creepy, maybe need weapons or self defense classes (like in college) but I am careful, told enough people too so they are aware. Worst thing ever!

creepedout60's picture

I never would have thought in a million years I would be dealing with this! Guess I'll thumb thru phonebook for a good attorney! Thanks

Snowflake's picture

My mom actually has... But my mom is old school. What Stepdaughter did NOT realize was that my mom was hard on ALL of her kids. I told her once, that she was just as hard on you as she was on us. I told her that at least she had her dad there to protect her, that me and my siblings had nobody there to protect us. That sure changes her tune. For many years she thought that my mom was mean stepmom, and I told her that no - she wasn't!!! She just expects the best from her kids!!! ALL OF THEM!!!