nothing else has been said. DH acts as if it never happened. What the hell is it with men? DH is mostly good to me as a husband. But when it comes to all this crap with his precious princesses he can get ugly. I don't know what it is that makes him think it's okay to speak to them so gently, in regards to disciplining, and speak to ours with authority and sternness. Skids are 14 and 11, hardly old enough for adult conversation and definitely young enough to need some firm scolding from time to time. Our daughter and son are 7 & 4. You have to be stern with them AND the other two. Skids aren't any more special. I have pointed this out to him and he said he didn't realize he was treating them differently and said he wouldn't do that anymore, but you know what happened? He didn't start treating skids any differently. Instead, he backed off the our little ones (for now). He always reverts. Helloooo? Dumbass! You have to be stern with all children when they need it. You don't just drop off the radar all the way around. Am I missing something?

Anyway, back to the whole acting like nothing happened. It was a bad fight and I was ready to walk out the door. Nothing was resolved because my sister showed up and we had to squelch the whole conversation. Now he acts like it never happened? I don't want another fight, but I can't just move on from it like that. I can't just bounce back. I mean, for heavens sakes, he told me that I need "help" because I refuse to take care of his children for him any more! How insulting is that? I told him he needed to take some parenting classes. Aaarrrggghhh. Men!