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Submitted by dakotamom on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 8:50am

it's ss15-now ss16's bday today. i didnt get him anything nor do i plan on it. he has been a little ass to me since christmas. is it wrong to not acknowledge the little turd? just doing the same as was shown to me on my bday Smile

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Submitted by Jsmom on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 8:57am

Don't give the kid a thing. SD14 now 15 birthday was on Saturday. DH gave her nothing to my knowledge. They met for lunch to give her her Birth Certificate. 2nd time in 1 year. I wouldn't ever spend my money on someone who doesn't like me.

You have no reason to feel guilty, these kids do not deserve our compassion. Treat us terribly and you get what you get.

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Submitted by dakotamom on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 9:09am

i confronted the skid about his treatment of me after christmas and said to me, not his father, said it's how he feels, it's just his mood - deal with it. well it's just my mood back i guess.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 9:21am

My ss will be 13 on he 18th and I am getting him the same thing I got him last year. A big fat nothing. I have had many conversations with him also about his treatment and I got a similar response back-I have no reason to not like you, I just feel that way. :sick: Ok. I finally told him this past summer-that however he felt about me is exactly how I feel about him. He seemed shocked :O

Theres only so much effort one can put into a relationship. If the other party refuses to give anything back then you dont really even have a relationship. Why would you celebrate the birthday of someone your dont even have a relationship with?

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Submitted by dakotamom on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 9:44am

even DH's parents have noticed the skids behavior towards me but no big suprise - Dh doesn't.....it's in MY head. yep ok DH - talk to your parents - is it in their head also?????
the only reason it even bothers me is because it makes weekends so awkward. i hate being around people that act like that - it's like being in high school all over, you fight with yoru friend and they act like you're not there until you make up. well FU skid - i didnt do shit to you besides try to be nice at first.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 2:05pm

I don't get my skids anything.. not my job....that is DH's responsibility. They don't get me anything for my birthday either, so I don't care if I'm acting like a 40 year old baby or not, you get what you give.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Thu, 04/07/2011 - 3:38pm

Completely agree. Last Christmas I finally told DH that SS was to get me a Christmas gift. He was old enough to pick out a gift. I purchase for him and he will get something for me. As for SD, I have no relationship with her, why the hell should I buy her a damn thing....