it's been a while since i've been on. Got a new job lost a lot of stress, but it's time to update.
DH and i were away for the weekend and ss16 txt DH asking him big our tv was. well i get out of him that the stepdad on the other side is telling ss18 that we are kicking him out and that the tvs are more important to us than the skids are. this has me pissed. this guy is just a major asshole and i've never had conversation one with him or DH's mistake of a babymomma (this douche's wife). I call ss18 asking him if he's home, he's not but on the way. i tell him of what's going on and reassured him that in no way are we kicking him out. he's going to college and we're rearranging the rooms in our house. what has been his room we made into our master livingroom and moved his room to a smaller room. he's not going to be here much, no sense in keeping it a museum for when he chooses to stop by. ss18 tells me that stepdouche is trying to be a "father" to him and ss16 and gets mad at the skids when they dont call him "dad". again i'm livid. i'm told time adn time again after trying to help ss18 get financial aid lined up for school that i need to "learn my place" and back off. that is the exact same message i told teh skids to pass on. why is it ok for this bitch to encourage her new hubby to play dad, but i need to learn my place and sit in the corner quietly????