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dezm00's picture

Sooo my stepson has hit a new low. I have recently been accused of breaking his toys. Same toys he didn't take care of. I was told that his Christmas presents weren't good enough and he wanted better ones. Mind you he got everything he asked for. Oh and he told his dad and my dad that I choked him. Awesome stuff. I have never stuck my hands on his neck but damn did I want to after he accused me. I am 18 weeks pregnant and he came and told me I was big and fat. Keep in mind it wasn't in a joking teasing way. It was in a down right cruel tone. To try and get sympathy from my husband my 6 yo SS pissed his pants. THANK GOD my husband saw through it and didn't feed into it. My husband and I only fight about the kid. We are going to family therapy and if that doesn't change things I am leaving. I don't want to divorce my husband. Just his kid.

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hbell0428's picture

Aren't the fights nice........ Sad
DH and I have NEVER fought this much since SD13 has moved in with us.
She is even grounded now and has us fighting (yes we allow this......No I will say dad allows this - I see through it)
SD likes to lie too; I'm so mean - Mean?!?!?!? She has no idea what mean is.

Pathetic

Butterflykissesandlicks's picture

We hardly ever fight until SD6 is here as well. I just go in my
" safe mode" about 3-4 days prior and then it takes me a few days after to detox. All we do is try to manage what damage has been done during her stay by her BM- not fun.

skylarksms's picture

Ilovearizona, must be the abusive way you breathe around them. Or maybe all the abuse you inflict when you share the same square footage as them.

Oh, I know!! It's all the abuse you give them by not allowing 24x7 access to daddykins at all times!!!!