For a long long time i felt terribly guilty about the feelings i have towards my wifes son.when i met her he was 7,i heard that his father passed away before he was born.......i felt terrible for him.My wife and i got serious and the first years i did everything in my power to make him feel comfortable with me.I made it a point to take him to see movies,arcades,buy clothes,mcdonalds,help with his homework.......everything.....But i always felt something wasnt right....When he turned ten my son was born.The best day of my life.But i still made it a point to spend time with ss.

All thru the years i noticed so many things wrong,he has no manners whatsoever,never says thank you and is a total hypocrite.his mom and i seperated for almost 2 years and the day the moving truck was loading my stuff he was all uncomfortable and i felt for him........when my sister in law left the room.......he hit me up for some cash.....it made me sick.

Anyways hes 16 now and we dont even say hi to each other,i despise his presence.like someone said everything he does makes me cringe.he is a total hypocrite,talks nice when he wants something and his grandparents spoil him rotten.he always has money and going to these 350$dance camps and stuff.

Ive tried to explain to my wife that he is not learning to value money and he should at least help around the house.....nothing,his room stinks,hes the laziest slob in the world,rude,ungratfull,table manners of a 4 year old and i too cringe when i hear his godamn keys in the door.im skipping a lot of stuff.ive tried to talk to him but he says yes to everything and has a smirk.I love my wife and my son but i cant stand his presence.