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The ever infuriating MIL

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Submitted by doll faced sm on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 11:26am

MIL has been saying some nasty things about SIL (husb.'s brother's wife) that she had inferred from SIL's FB posts. Essentally that SIL is leaving BIL for BIL's uncle. Of course, it's not true and MIL is crazy and all of MIL's children's spouses know that.However, a lot of MIL's blood family don't know that; they drink her kool aid like it's the world's finest champaign.

Anyway, I let SIL know that she may want to block MIL from being able to see what she posts, and why. SIL then let me know that I need to do the same. Seems MIL believes Dd2 is not husb.'s child. That I cheated on husb. while he was deployed.

Um, we were deployed together and DD2 wasn't conceived until months later, anyway.

I knew I should've stayed away from her crazy train. Why in the world would she ask me to re-friend her then beg husb. to ask me when obviously all she wants to do is talk shit about me. Oh, that's right. B/c she has to have something real that everyone can actually see and verify upon which to base the lies. Then her family will have to believe her. Ugh!

At least now I understand why she doesn't do for baby.

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 11:40am

LOL - I love your tag-line directed @ teens! SOOO TRUE!

And in regards to your post...I would most definitely block MIL and anyone that associates with her or drinks her "kool-aid" as well. I have been noticing a trend on ST lately and alot of it has had to do with posts on FB such as yours! Social media is EVIL I swear...everyone is talking shit about everyone it just never ends! That is why I barely go on it anymore, only repost things I like, barely anything I have to say mostly as I am sure you can understand why now...plus I don't have any family other than an Uncle and brother and no co-workers or customers on my FB. Seriously, FB ruins lives and starts such horrible shit storms, before I deleted alot of ppl on my FB I was noticing how my father would know my business all of a sudden and my father barely knows how to operate a computer nor does he have a FB so you can imagine where he got his info from. Sad

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Submitted by doll faced sm on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 12:05pm

I only have this problem where MIL is concerned. She's a medler. I knew that, and I blocked her. I should have left it at that. I let husb. talk me into letting her back in. Shame on me.

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Submitted by doll faced sm on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 12:07pm

I've thought about it, but I'm an out sider. I'd be seen as the trouble maker, not her. But, oh, have I fantasized!

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Submitted by hismineandours on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 2:19pm

Hmmm. I wonder if MY mil secretly thinks my youngest (mine and dh's child) is not really dh's. Cause I have NO explanation as to why she doesn't even speak to her 11 year old granddaughter.

My mil is crazo too. Basically when I was introduced to the family-dh made it clear that my mil was the "saint" and that everyone in the family thought so. HA! It took me awhile, but I finally figured out that she is the engineer of the whole crazy train. Everyone only thinks she is saint because that is what she brainwashed them into thinking. My dh is starting to come around-it has taken him along time to see the dysfunction in his family.

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Submitted by doll faced sm on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 4:53pm

Mine knows his family is dysfunctional; he just expects me to suck it up or ignore it to keep the peace.