This weekend visit with my sd3 actually went really well. I only had to seperate the girls once for fighting, any everyy time she started to whine i put sd3 in the" whine chair" to let her get it out of her system. She almost made me cry. She said when she cries at her mommy's its because she misses me, daddy, bd2 and bd8mo. Felt good when i got home from work and my three girls are running to me and crawling on my lap.