so mom suggested to keep the peace, to make the car pmt and get the money for the tag taken care of so he can go look for a job to keep it as normal as possible (i did). he went out looking for jobs today, i also gave him gas money, which he's already gone through (i didn't give much cause i dont' want him burning it up for nothing) so he finally got OUT off of the computer putting in applications.

i am still going to stay with mom for the week to work on exit plans and help with my dying grandfather. going to be a busy weekend.