Sweet baby Jesus.....help me!!
Here we are, the first weekend of the month and we all know what that means. I only have the one nail appointment tomorrow morning and a soccer game I have to get to but other than that I will be home. DH has caught on and isn't real happy that I do these things. Not to mention that since we're house hunting we have to get our current house in shape to either be sold or rented out. Weekends are our only time to really put work into it, and there is alot of work that needs to be done.
Speaking of moving, as I said previously we're planning a comeplete change move. New town, new house, new start. Unfortunately it's close to Inbred, a little too close. DH mentioned last night that he wanted to go back to court after the big move and ask for 50/50 split.
NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I about flipped my shit when he said that, thankfully in my head only. How could he possibly think this is a good idea? He keeps saying that if I spend some more time with the darling little angels it'll help us form a deeper relationship. LIKE HELL IT WILL.
I did calmly remind him that during their first summer with us, when I took off work to stay home with them that we both thought that same thing, and boy did that back fire. I've also reminded him that I know he thinks they're little angels but he should remember that at one time, satan himself was an angel so referencing them as such does nothing to my opinion of them.
I can't imagine having a nice brand new home and them there 50% of the time. They would turn my happy sanctuary into a prison that I can't escape from. I might as well walk around in bright orange scrubs and do push ups in the back yard while trading my virtue for cigarettes.
I know he wants me to feel like they are my own; bless his heart, but I will never feel like that. They are not my own and never will be. I'm sure he thinks I'll be the one to drop them off at school and find daycares or extra things to put them in but that's not happening. I have enough to worry about with my own kids, I don't need to pile on someone elses worries for someone elses kids.
Hell, now I'm thinking of staying put.
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At times, DH mentions SS
At times, DH mentions SS coming to live with us in a couple years or during college. It will never happen. No way BM would allow it given the amount of CS she would lose. That being said, DH knows it's a pipe dream and would mean the end of our marriage. There is no way I could live with skids 50/50 or full time. I totally understand how you fell.
Is your DH wanting this to lower CS?
The CS is a factor, but
The CS is a factor, but Inbred is doing her best to PAS the kids. Going as far as having the kids call her bf new daddy and call DH old daddy.
The PASing would probably
The PASing would probably just get ramped up if it happened. If the situation is already bad, it won't make it any better. It will just create a kid in the middle who will probably learn real quick how to play both sides if she doesn't already.
I thanked God everyday that
I thanked God everyday that we did not live close enough to BM for 50/50, not that she would've let that happen without a fight (she wouldn't have wanted to give up a dime).
We get the SKs every weekend.
We get the SKs every weekend. I'm off every other Friday and DH want's to get the kids Thursday nights on those weeks. If I even suggest to wait and get them on Friday like we are supposed to he gets angry. It's not like he's going to be late to work to drop them off at school and come home 3hrs early to pick them up. All on me. I can't count how many times I've heard, Well you know I want to get the kids full time one day, You won't get a break then. First off, DM is never giving up child support. She uses it to pay rent and so that she can work in a bar. Her favorite place. I usually just respond with, We will worry about that when it happens.
** I can't count how many
** I can't count how many times I've heard, Well you know I want to get the kids full time one day, You won't get a break then.**
Your answer to DH should be " Uh ,No, YOU won"t get a break then."