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Submitted by Failing Optimist on Sat, 09/13/2014 - 4:32pm

It's so simple.. I feel so never puts the effort in. Having two BMs is frustrating. We have ss12 every Saturday and Sunday, leaves very little time for couple time. On the off chance we had ss on Friday night instead. We hosted a dinner with ss and fil tonight. By the time so came home after dropping both ss and fil back it was 930. He came back in bad form and lasted one hour watching our favourite tv programme together and has left me at 1020 to go to bed. I'm so disappointed our first Saturday night together in as long as I can remember . Maybe years. It's frustrating and disappointing. Trying not to be over the top upset about it so I've poured myself a glass of red and time to watch some of my trashy tv that I love

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Submitted by Failing Optimist on Sat, 09/13/2014 - 4:38pm

May I add that for the whole hour he acted like he didn't want to be there. Eugh. What an exciting Saturday night. I accept I'm 30 and too old for night clubs and usually every Saturday night i understand we have ss so can't go out and gave to be up early Sunday. Thus is a once off and I really wanted to take advantage of it, perhaps have some sexy time but he makes that so hard as I am totally annoyed and ticked off right now.

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Submitted by Failing Optimist on Sat, 09/13/2014 - 4:59pm

I just want him to put some effort in... I know he did cause he cooked dinner but he always does that for ss. It's sad.

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Submitted by Failing Optimist on Sat, 09/13/2014 - 5:37pm

I jut think it would be nice every now again so realized what I have given up for him, in terms of when I first met him I was a real socialite. I didn't even want to go out tonight just watch a nice movie or something, enjoy each other's company together without a then restriction of going to bed as we have mid week (we both work crazy hours leave the house by 7 home by 8 in bed by 19) leaves very little bonding time as a couple mid week

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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Sun, 09/14/2014 - 10:27pm

I can understand your frustration.Men are idiots sometimes and maybe you can help him next time by letting him know what you want and expect.In the ideal word he would know, but in reality many men don't get it at all.Sometimes we must learn to let go of our hopes that they will simply know what we wish for.But we should never let go of our expectations themselves- just help him a little bit next time by saying you would like to go in a nice restaurant or doing something special.However, if he doesn't care about how you feel, it is not a good sign.