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Feeling unloved's picture

My SD22 has always had this weird fascination with showing herself off  

When she was around 13 she would take pictures that were inappropriate. Once she emailed them to a boy. Then she would take just suggestive photos that didn’t show anything but were still inappropriate.  We fought it but she had a BM & step dad who said oh you’re being ridiculous. Most likely because this stuff usually happened when she went there. 

 

Flash forward to her being 18. She posts a topless photo on social media. DH says something to her. She basically tells him she can do what she wants but took the photo down. 

 

Flash forward to now - she’s married and has a 6 month old. She breastfeeds. Which is fine  but she takes every opportunity to post her son on her boob. Which fine ok whatever but I’ll get photos of him with her nipple right there. Not in his mouth. Him smiling next to her nipple then a oops didn’t realize that was there. 

 

Its weird isnt it?!?! What the heck?!?!

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Disneyfan's picture

She's doing it to get a reaction our of you.  Instead of reacting in the manner she is expecting, screw with her.

Download some photo filters.  Every time she sends you a photo with an exposed nipple, cover it with a ridiculous filter and send it back to her.  

Sooner or later she will get the message and stop sending you nipple flicks by "mistake"

 

Feeling unloved's picture

I don’t even react because I know she wants that. When she sent the baby pic with her nipple I just responded hours later “oh he’s so cute” 

fairyo's picture

Or- block her posts. I had to do this with XOSD after discussing with TheX that I thought her posts inappropriate and they made me uncomfortable (although I never saw her nipples thank God!) and all I got as a repsonse was that everyone does it. Do they? Like who? He said he knew a couple of other people who put stuff like that on... but I told him I didn't.

Fast forward a few weeks and I raised the issue again and wondered if I should de-friend her? He said I shouldn't and I didn't because I didn't want to upset the apple-cart- so I just unfollowed her.

One of the first things I did after leaving TheX was to de-friend the whole bunch of them...

Feeling unloved's picture

I do have her on unfollow since she went nuts posting but it’s the texts I get. I just ignore them so she doesn’t feed off my reaction but it’s still weird. 

tog redux's picture

Some women live for validation that they are attractive to the opposite sex. Our culture encourages that by sexualizing even young girls.

She's just an attention whore.

susanm's picture

If a woman wants to  expose herself, breastfeeding provides the perfect opportunity.  Most women do it discretely and there are no problems.  But with the new laws, if a woman chooses to literally whip off her shirt in public and then post pictures of it on social media to boot, so long as there is an infant hovering somewhere around one of her breasts she is in the clear.  And God help the person who so much as raises an eyebrow.  Apparently she has wanted a hallpass for public nudity for a while now and she has gotten it.

tog redux's picture

Seriously. I was at a play once and a woman was pumping right in the open in the foyer of a public bathroom while a long line of women and girls waited to use the rest room.  She could have sat with her back to the door, or in the corner at bit more or covered herself but no, she sat right there, pumping away while chit-chatting with someone else.  You could see that she was making a point that she COULD do this and daring anyone to say anything.

I'm all for breastfeeding in public and I don't think people should be shamed for it in any way, shape or form.  But I personally would not whip out a boob in public without some modesty and don't want to see anyone else's boobs either.

Feeling unloved's picture

This!! I-m so happy I’ve been saying this. She now has a license to whip it out. 

 

Every maternity photoshoot she had, and there were multiple shoots, she’d be semi nude or just wrapped in a sheet. 

advice.only2's picture

Send a photo of DH by your nipple, then “oops I didn’t know that was there.”  I have a feeling the photos will stop 

thinkthrice's picture

 A Seinfeld episode on this...Elaine's Christmas card.

thinkthrice's picture

vajayjay shots with the household cat in the foreground?

susanm's picture

"Here is a picture of my pussy cat.  His name is Fluffy and I got him at the shelter last spring."  Smile

NarcissisticSkids's picture

That is hilarious, also best idea ever!! The “kitty” shot would make the boob pic pale in comparison!!! LOL

marblefawn's picture

My SD dresses quite scantily. I could die sometimes when I see what she's (not) wearing.

People who have nothing else going for them need to get that attention however they can.

 

marblefawn's picture

My SD dresses quite scantily. I could die sometimes when I see what she's (not) wearing.

People who have nothing else going for them need to get that attention however they can.