My BS14 (son with my ex) cousin is turning 15 this weekend. They are having the big quinenera for her to which I was invited because me and BS14 aunt are best friends. Not only am I invited but I am a godparent (so I will get to present something to the birthday girl and will also say a speech). A quincenera is like a sweet sixteen. Today is rehearsal dinner, tomorrow big party, and the day after there is a brunch. I am even picking up one of my BS14 aunt from airport and she will be getting dressed for party at my house. Today I was thinking this must be so weird for DH, he is going to be around my ex all this time. Thankfully they get along and I don't have a good nor bad relationship with ex new GF we just have a mutual respect. But still here I am running around for my ex family and he is helping me out too. I would not do it for SS or his family but then again me and his BM hate each other. I was even thinking of allowing my ex daughters with his gf stay over... Would that be too much? Just so that they can spend more time with BS14 who only gets to see them once a year.