Monday BM gets an idea that SS8 is suppose to ride the bus to her house after school (even though it is DH's week). SS8, of course, is not on the bus because DH picked him up at school. Guess who gets the call from SS8's teacher after BM calls the school in a panic?? That's right - Harleygurl!

Meanwhile I'm 3 hours away at my BS15's doc appointment and have no idea of what has transpired. But the teacher called me first. Wonder why? Maybe because I'm the only responsible adult in SS8's life?? I tell him to call DH and get off the phone.

Fast forward about an hour. DH called fuming and swearing about BM and her crazy-ass ways. They had several phone calls back and forth with cussing, pushing each other's buttons, hanging up, etc. I simply state "I'm busy. I don't have time for this childish shit." My exact words.

Driving home I get a text message from BM asking me to call her before I get home so that she can talk to me without DH being around. I was livid! WTF! I'm out of town with my son and somehow those idiots still think I should be involved. Not my kid. Not my problem.

Finally I get home, hear DH's side of the story, tell him she won because she got him so hot under the collar and he lost his cool. He hates how brutally honest I am. Deal with it. I texted her back with the following:

"I am not getting in the middle of this. I had to take my son to his doctor's appointment at ____. On top of that he is sick. My other son needs surgery. I work full time and am trying to start a business. I am too tired and too busy to put up with being yelled at by either of you!"

She responds with wishing me good luck with my business and she hopes my sons feel better. WTF??? Seriously? Can we say delusional for both BM and DH???